Walkin’ the Talk
What’s the good word family? Carlos is back with another edition of “Walkin’ the Talk”. Last month we shined the spotlight on a young brother who was making his mark in music for the Kingdom. This month we’re going to take a different route and talk about something that is well overdue for what I’d like to call, a ‘State of the Church Address’. I went against the norm and reached out to some brothers and sisters to get their insight on “church”. So here it is.
I asked a simple question to a random selection of folks. That question was, “Do you go to church?” Depending on their answer, the follow-up was either “why or why not?” Out of my random selection of 10 people, here’s what they had to say:
Anonymous 1: I’m spiritual and believe in god but I have strong disagreements with organized religion in general.
Carlos: What’s organization religion in your opinion?
A 1: It’s too structured. It doesn’t feel like church or family it’s like a job but instead of getting paid, you pay it.
Anonymous 2: No I don’t go to church because I’m not religious.
A 3: It’s just pure laziness on my part. I go on special occasions.
Carlos: What are the special occasions?
A 3: Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Easter sometimes if I got something to new to wear.
Anonymous 4: I attend church very infrequently. I have a major distrust of unfortunately, predominately black churches due to emphasis they tend to put on monetary collections.
Carlos: You mean like a building fund and pastor offering and so forth?
A 4: Yeah exactly. They just always ask for money and then you never see this new building they always talk about.
Anonymous 5: I don’t go because it’s very hard for me to see a preacher or leader of the church looking rich & extra dapper.
Carlos: So you think that the preacher gets rich off of your dime and say it’s for the church when it really isn’t?
A 5: yup.
Anonymous 6: I feel that church is & has never been my main connection to God & my spirituality. I make sure that I embody positivity & goodness regardless of my attendance or lack there of; inside a church.
Carlos: So for you as long as your living a positive lifestyle, all is good.
A 6: Yes. I’m not out there drinking and smoking and carrying on so I’m good.
Anonymous 7: Church ain’t for me. As long as I believe in God that’s good enough.
Carlos: So basically no need to go as long as you believe in Him? The whole fellowship piece isn’t important?
A 7: For some it may be but not for me. Me and God are here (does a hand motion pointing to the sky and self)
Anonymous 8: I don’t attend church because the people in church don’t accept people who have faults. They talk behind your back and act like they are better than everyone else and that’s not what church is suppose to feel like regardless of what my faults are.
Carlos: Have someone hurt you in church before?
A 8: Yeah. That’s exactly why I feel the way I do because church people are backstabbers. Can’t trust them.
Anonymous 9: I’m too young for that. I might go when I’m older.
Carlos: There’s an age for church?
A 9: I mean I’m young and this is my time to have fun and experience life. I know who God is bur I don’t have to sit in church for that. God wants us to enjoy life anyway.
Anonymous 10: I don’t go because I don’t believe in god. I believe there are many gods but not just one god.
At this point, you’re probably saying, “wow”, or you’re shaking your head in disbelief and discomfort, or perhaps you’ve heard some of this before. However, these are some very deep responses; and they came straight from the mouths and hearts of our very own people. I myself became very heavy-hearted hearing these responses because from my perspective, I just don’t understand. It’s not that I don’t understand the person who gave the response; it’s that I don’t understand where we as Christians went wrong to be the rooted cause of these direct responses in some fashion. We are to be a light to the world but according to some of these responses, we have turned off that light and left people in the dark with the expectancy for them to still see the God in us and find their own way to Him.
The real question is this: What can you do to help? This isn’t an opportunity to single these people out and exile them or look down on their feelings. This is the opportunity to minister, evangelize, teach, educate, lead, mentor, and change! As you look over these responses, they show that they all spell one thing, deceived. The word says that ignorance will be the fall of God’s people. These are just 10 people who don’t know. Yeah, they may know the basics or perhaps they just don’t care to know at all, but again, what are we as Christians doing to change that? What are we doing outside the walls of the church that make people feel like we are hypocrites and look down upon those with faults? How do we break the irony that a building fund is not meant to build the pastors mansion in the county and put 26’s on his Escalade? How can we break the barrier of being referred to as organized religion? Yes the kingdom is about decency and order but is there to be so much order and organization that it’s no longer a church home where you can feel at home and worship God with family but rather a church business? The questions could go on and on but you have the answers to them. We have to make the change and get outside of the church walls and snatch these people up. How do you think the enemy gets to them? Not by just sitting in Hades waiting for them to come his way. The enemy is on a prowl like a door-to-door salesman and people are buying his mess!
That’s it for me. Until next month, I leave you with this: If you’re not winning souls, you’re losing.
Peace and Blessings